Deep(er) Connection

 
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I want to quickly comment on the trajectory of this next run of videos and blog posts.

Wildly Better since it’s inception has had three areas of interest, optimizing our lives through habits, health and heart.  The habits and health prongs are very obvious to anyone who has followed this for a even a little while.  The third, “heart” prong, probably less so.  This third area has to do with spirituality, the “heart” of our existence, and a conversation grounded in our evolving quantum world…quite clearly not as fluffy as the other two.  And while we are not leaving the other two behind, we are putting them on the back burner for a bit.

In the introduction to my book “Transformational Architecture” I used an illustration about Galileo and Copernicus and their excommunication from the Christian church because their research suggested the long held “earth at the center of the universe” was incorrect cosmology, and their astronomical calculations had the sun at the center.  Since this new science was incompatible with prior theological considerations their research was pronounced as heresy by the church for a very, very long time.  Ironically they were charged with wrongdoing due to the quotation of bible verses that “proved the earth was at the center.” In other words, whatever correct the bible might have to say about faith it clearly doesn’t share the heliocentric view of the universe now accepted as fact.

The take away from this debacle should be how easy it is to have theological/philosophical considerations become so entangled in culture that we end up confused about what part is cultural and what is theological. And our dogmatism that it is one of those and not the other too many times proves to be foolishly wrong.

The sophisticated way of saying this is cosmology (how we talk about the universe) always impacts theology (how we talk about god). Shifts in cosmology = Shifts in theology.

For over 100 years we have been trying to metabolize the changes in cosmology as we have made quantum discoveries and realized that so much of what we originally thought about the cosmos was at the very least incomplete.  What does that mean to god-talk? This is far from an irrelevant question, it is actually a very important and rather common conversation, especially intriguing among Millennials (those that are 22-36 years old) who have opted to remain unattached to any major world religion.  

Over the next weeks and months I will try to contribute to that conversation in a small way and hope you will do the same.  

Thank you for joining the conversation, it is not for the faint of heart, for what history has shown over and over again, is many people prefer what has always been whether change is warranted, supported by facts, or simply necessary because it has been wrong to date and we have just discovered that.

Enjoy the conversation.

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J.R.R. Tolkien the British author of Lord of the Rings fame, T.S. Eliot the great British poet and C.S. Lewis the British English Literature professor and apologist...all say this one man influenced their thinking more than any one other person.  I would say that is a significant claim to fame. 

This guy was a close friend of C.S. Lewis’s throughout his adult life from 1919 till Lewis's death in 1963. He was Lewis's legal and financial advisor, and became an executor of his estate. Lewis dedicated his first scholarly book, The Allegory of Love (1936) to this 'wisest and best of my unofficial teachers,' stating in its preface that he asked no more than to disseminate this man’s literary theory and practice, and dedicated the first Narnia Chronicle to his friend's adopted daughter Lucy. This man is no doubt one of the most influential people on British writers that you have probably never heard of. 

What I am most interested in is this man’s observation about what he calls Original Participation.

Up until about 400 years ago, Owen Barfield says that was our dominant center of gravity.  

Original participation is the phrase he used to describe how our consciousness intuitively sensed the connectedness of all things and how intimately we were interwoven into the fabric of the rest of the created order around us.  In other words only a few centuries ago we reflexively knew the entire cosmos, of which we are a part, a very very small part by the way, was all One.*

The rise of rationalism, specialization (that is often more interested in parts than wholes) and the entire modernist project has deeply undermined any sense of connectedness we might have to each other, let alone nature and the rest of creation.

The implications of this break(down) are of course as varied as us seeing people as “other” instead of “part of me,” seeing creation as disposable and for my ends, and bring tricked into fully living out the Jewish creation myth, where the human condition is summarily traced to eating the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of “good” and “not good.” This famous myth is trying to get at the fundamental human problem: we all have a love affair with duality, with us/them, black/white, right/wrong, good/not good binary judgements…and of course I am always on the “right” side of the judgement.  

Whether the binary is about which side of the climate change question you sit, the immigration debate, political persuasion, or the human sexuality question (that is about to totally reconfigure one of the global Christian denominations in the next 6 months), they are all essentially the same conversation… there is a binary and my judgements are the correct ones…i am right, and you are wrong.

While the dualistic mind has always loved polarity, true religion (and we might put the word spirituality here as well which we will dive into soon) has always been for the express purpose of breaking that down.  The Latin re-ligare, from where we get the word re-ligion, means to re-ligature, re-connect, to bring together.  Ironically religion has clearly NOT done that nor has it been known for that.  Which is quite possibly a testimony to the paltry and impotent versions of religion around us. This is one reason why so many people have an allergy to the word religion and much prefer “spirituality.”  In fact it is just in the last several years that the acronym SBNR has become common in our lexicon - Spiritual But Not Religious. 

Barfield was fond of noting that the break with original participation was a move out of our bodies and into our heads where the goal was fundamentally more about being correct than connected.

Did you hear that?  Correct rather than connected.  

This simply reflects Jewish creation myth and the contracted infection from having eaten the fruit that continues fueling our reflexive drive to constantly call out what we think is good and not good.  We seemingly have a “genetic” proclivity for judgement.

One of my facilitation instructors frequently says the inability to come to peace and harmony with others is simply the reflection of agitation and lack of peace within. 

I invite your curiosity to consider two things today.

  1. Are you adequately reengaging the creation around you and experiencing the joy and peace oneness with it brings?  

From one of the ancient song writers in Judaism

 God-craft on exhibit across the horizon. 

Madame Day holds classes every morning,

Professor Night lectures each evening.

   Their words aren’t heard, their voices aren’t recorded, 

But their silence fills the earth: unspoken truth is spoken everywhere.

  God makes a huge dome for the sun—a superdome!

What patterns and practices might you engage to deeply connect to creation, to be infused with the energy of creation, to experience the health and spiritual benefits of creation?

These days I am animated by the idea that we need an immersion in original participation.  A genuine appreciation that we are “the evolving universe becoming conscious of itself” (Julian Huxley evolutionary biologist and Teilhard de Chardin Jesuit Paleontologist).

I did a video not long ago on Shinrin Yoku the Japanese art of forest bathing: the healing and health producing effects of being immersed in nature. (here if you missed it!)  In fact a brand new book has just been released on it here!

2.   Are you engaging a religion/spirituality that is truly re-ligaturing your life and a torn apart world? Is it bringing you a deeper greater sense of wholeness and oneness? Or is your religion personally more defined by taking on the enemy position, trying to play police, or trying to assert your rightness?

What do your patterns and practices do in bringing more wholeness and human flourishing to those around you? How is your transformation being injected into your surroundings in tangible ways?

My invitation:  first, engage nature more, become more connected…become less concerned about being correct and more concerned about being compassionate.  More concerned about oneness than separateness, more aware of our similarities than differences.

Second invitation: what does a truly 21st century, evolutionary, quantum spirituality look and feel like?  How is it different than the current options?  And what do we need to do to get there?

If Owen Barfield were still alive I would love to dive into those questions with him.  While we might live in divisive times we live in times of wild possibility.  But those possibilities do not lie in what we have always done, always voiced or by holding to long expired positions because somebody back then said so.   

A return to a deeper connection to the created order, and our profound oneness with it - Original participation - seems like a good start for me.

What about you?  What can you share about the patterns and practices you are engaging or how you are processing the questions asked in this post?

 

 

*It is very difficult to give simple summary quotes from Barfield.  His writing isn’t very patient with simplification.  But I give two quotes here I think begin to capture his thought. — The "primitive" awareness or consciousness in which mankind once believed--in a pre-logical, pre-mythical manner--that "there stands behind the phenomena, and on the other side of them from me, a represented which is of the same nature as me . . . of the same nature as the perceiving self, inasmuch as it is not mechanical or accidental, but psychic and voluntary" (Saving the Appearances 42), a mindset in which we feel ourselves to be "functioning member[s] of the natural world, as a finger is a member of the physical body” In original participation "the represented is felt to be on the other side of the phenomena from the perceiving self. At the same time, it is felt to be linked with, or related to, that self otherwise than through the senses. The self, so far as there yet is one, is still aware that it and the phenomena derive from the same supersensible source" (SA 122-23)

 

The Impulse

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What one can be, one must be

Abraham Maslow

Maslow is summarizing in 6 words the human drive toward “better,” toward being fully human, toward being all that we can be. He said it was as real as our need to breath.

Millenia before Maslow, in 382 BCE, one of the great philosophers, Aristotle, was born; he might be the first person who identified this drive.  He called it entelechia, the drive to make actual what is currently only potential.  Most of us really want to be better, do better, become something more.

Do you realize???

700 years ago…the Plague killed 200 million people in a single year; that is 40% of England’s population.

500 years ago… 3 million people died in France due to famine.

100 years ago… World War I saw 16 million killed and the flu killed 50 million in a single year!

If we heard stats like that today we would be shocked and alarmed.

The world has dramatically progressed in the last 100 years  But that progress is often eclipsed by the reporting bias that supports our evolutionary propensity for tuning into negative threats.  Which means, negative news sells, because it gets attention, which skews our understanding of what is happening in the real world. Which is why it feels so despairing… entelechia has us wanting things to improve….but it is!

Do you realize the per capita income for every single nation on the planet has tripled in the last century? Food cost has dropped 30X?  Not 30%, 30 fold! Transportation hundreds X and communication millions X? 

We could dig into all the interesting changes that have happened in the last 100 years.  Because few stats are short of mind blowing.

But it illustrates the point of this post.  We have a worldview biased to seeing the world as getting worse…when there is hardly one metric where that is true.  

If you didn’t see last week’s Wildlybetter video on three books you must read, go watch it… it is all about this wild improvement in our world.

Over time we ARE improving.  And entelechia is the impulse, the spark the prompt that moves us toward improving.

Which raises a question….are you?

Are you getting better?  

What gets attention grows.  

What gets attention gets invested with intention.  

 

So where is your attention?  What is your intention?

Where is entelechia prompting you?

This might be a more important question than ever because one of the big areas of global improvement is lifespan.

You stand to be here on this planet longer than any generation, bar the original methuselah generations.

100,000 years ago, cavemen lived til their late 20's. By age 13, humans went into puberty and began having children; by 26, those parents became grandparents and soon passed away.

Lifespan grew to about 35 by the Middle Ages.

In the 1800’s it was around 40.

Today it is around 80 and rising all the time. 

You, on average, have more years ahead than your great-grandparents had on this planet.

What is getting your entelechia impulse to be a contributor and dent-maker?  

What is getting your attention and intention this week? What are your deepest priorities?

To move from the comfortable bayou of the known into the vast ocean of the unknown will take wild courage, friend. 

Rollo May, the 20th century eminent psychologist described entelechia in his book The Courage to Create:

“The acorn becomes an oak by means of automatic growth; no commitment is necessary. The kitten similarly becomes a cat on the basis of instinct. Nature and being are identical in creatures like them. But a man or woman becomes fully human only by his or her choices and his or her commitment to them. People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day. These decisions require courage.”

Grab some courage, focus your attention, bring some intention to your deepest priorities, and become all that you can be.

 

 

Quantum Connectedness

Quantum connectedness is more practical than you might think. We live in the extraordinary time when science is making observations that shatter any myth that spirituality and science are miles apart. While some of these seem academic the practical implications are nothing short of profound.

Quantum Soup... Where We Live

Quantum energy is the soup within which we all “live and move and have our being” (to quote Epimenides the 7th century BCE Greek philosopher-poet) It is the energy field from which all things have emerged and into which all things finally collapse.  The quantum field is the world, the invisible world, an invisible kingdom that exists beyond our senses but can activate our senses when we tune into it.  This is exactly the explanation given for one of the most, if not THE most, important scientific discoveries of our time,* why twins seem so connected even over thousands of miles, what we are actually learning about what were once called “premonitions,” and the controlled scientific experiments being done at Arizona State University on how “intention” has specific results on physical processes like plant growth.

Live Now!

 

“The greatest and most important problems of life are fundamentally unsolvable.They can only be outgrown.” 

Carl Jung

Attachments hold us in yesterday and prevent us from experiencing what is happening right here right now. 

Our meaning-maker, called the ego in psychology, is what gives me my me-ness.  My history, geography, genealogy, education, etc… is what funds the narrative I tell myself about who I am. 

What is fascinating about how we story-tell to ourselves is that most of it is tacit…it is happening under the radar of our awareness most of the time. 

The impetus from minus to plus never ends. The urge from below to above never ceases: whatever premises all our philosophers and psychologists dream of—self-preservation, pleasure principle, equalization—all these are but vague representations, attempts to express the great upward drive.
Göethe - Letter to Lavater

Goethe is speaking here of what the Greeks called Eros.  While usually equated with the erotic and sexuality, eros, according to the Greeks, was the human drive to connect to the divine, to truth, beauty and goodness.

What gets attention grows… certainly makes sense doesn’t it.  Whether it is the ache in your neck, your irritation with a colleague, paranoia about tomorrow’s meeting or… that living right now in the moment and experiencing what is around you right this second is really the only place you can really live!  All of these grow with attention.

We skim life…

When we live most of our lives in the top nine inches of our body we often give attention to nothing and live our lives trapped in daydreams.  Such “captured attention” with constantly looping thoughts in our minds gives us little margin to “give attention.”

I am a daydreamer. 

I prefer to frame it as, brilliant thinker, problem solver or creative genius, but when you strip away all the bologna I am a daydreamer.  But here is the problem when we live our life on the inside of our head we automatically become “blind” to what is happening around us. 

You have had it happen.  You are carrying on a conversation…with yourself….and you miss the exit? There it is!  Daydreaming that leads to blindness and it happens everyday for hours and hours.  When we are giving attention to those thoughts our “sight” goes on autopilot.  We are generally safe driving down the road but we miss details, even big ones.

That is a picture of our lives.  We skim through life hypnotized and blind. 

Here are some ways to try and stay awake.

  1. Start the day with some mindfulness practice.  

Mindfulness is a state of active, open attention to the present that is arising around you. When you’re mindful, you are able to observe your thoughts and feelings from a distance.  This enables you to be more proactive rather than reactive and to choose your course. There are a number of ways to go here but if you want to get out of the rut of sleepwalking the only way to do it is to cultivate a practice that will assist that goal. Instead of letting your life pass you by, mindfulness means living in the moment and awakening to experience. 

One word about “practice.”  The whole point of mindfulness practice is to enable you to be present in real life.  The practice itself isn’t enlightening, or somehow insightful.  It is a practice because as you leave your time of practice you have gotten under your belt a little more “mindfulness exercise” which will enable you in life to be more present and mindful due to your training.  Practice for the express purpose of accomplishing through training what you simply could not do by trying.

       2. Consciously “Do.” 

The foregoing might come off like daydreaming is bad.  It isn’t, but anything we do unconsciously (eating, web surfing, etc…) is still unconscious. Start noting when you are bored, seem to have nothing to do and when you are susceptible to clicking on to mindless autopilot. Choose to dream, problem solve or nap but in in the absence of that choice choose something else.

       3. Ask yourself how much you really experienced your “yesterday.” 

What was your pace like?  How much did you notice?  Did you feel others' heart? Did you notice your surroundings?  Was your food tasty?  Did you really hear others when they spoke? Often we get our day done but we don’t fully experience what the day actually offered.  That requires attention.


Let’s look for ways to taste life.  Let’s be attentive to where we direct our intention.  And let’s help our kids and families do the same.  Experiences around the holidays get piled up on each other.  One after another after another.  The compaction and compression of events leaves little option but to skim…unless we are aware and attentive.

 

 

 

Meditation and Breath... a way Forward

Meditation and Breath...    a way Forward

I have been doing a lot of seminar work lately;  much of it around human development and how the “self” is formed.  Simply and briefly stated our self understanding is a narrative compiled from layers of parental, sibling, playground friend, teacher, coach, professor, employer etc….stories we have picked up. We hear all sorts of stories/comments/observations from these narrative weavers but we choose certain stories to delete, others to hide from, others to replay and that creates the playlist of what gets put into the ipod-of-our-mind that is on an incessant repeat loop.

Jump the Rut!

Jump the Rut!

The truth is most of us have settled for mediocre.
We are content with average.
Unremarkable is fine.
Ho-Hum our soup du jour.
I was reminded this week working with a leader and his team that rhythms become routines and if we are not careful routines become ruts.